By Sally Jo

Back in 2018, I wasn’t trying to start a ministry. I wasn’t looking for a platform, a nonprofit, or a new LinkedIn title. I was just trying to figure out how to follow Jesus while navigating an attraction to the same sex. That’s it. I was in seminary, trying to get my degree and not flunk Greek, while quietly wrestling with some big questions about faith, identity, and desire. I wanted to know what God actually said about sexuality—and more importantly, what that meant for my life.

What I didn’t realize at the time was… I was basically making a career move. Oops.

Fast forward six years, and here I am—launching a ministry on human sexuality. Apparently, God took that whole “searching for truth” thing seriously.

The Honest Why

I never set out to become a spokesperson for “The Sexuality Conversation™.” Honestly, I’d rather be talking about the Seahawks or quoting Parks and Rec. But somewhere along the way, I realized I wasn’t just asking these questions for myself anymore. I started noticing the silence in the Church. I saw people quietly (and loudly) walking away from Jesus, not because they stopped believing in Him—but because they didn’t think there was space for them to belong with Him.

I’ve seen the pain this conversation causes. The confusion. The shame. The loneliness. I’ve also seen what happens when people finally hear that God’s design for sexuality isn’t just about rules—it’s about restoration. That His “no” is always tied to a deeper “yes.” That holiness and intimacy aren’t enemies. And that it’s still possible to live a meaningful, joyful, deeply human life—even if your story includes tension, temptation, or tears.

That’s the “why” for me. This ministry isn’t about culture wars or clickbait. It’s about people. It’s about discipleship. It’s about offering clarity in a foggy world, and compassion in a hurting one.

But Also… Let’s Be Real

Do I know what I’m doing? Not entirely.
Is it scary? Uh, yes.
Will I say something imperfect at some point and have someone on the internet yell about it? Absolutely.

But the truth is, I’m not doing this because I feel fearless. I’m doing it because I believe Jesus is worth the risk. I believe His design for our bodies, identities, relationships, and desires is good—even if it’s hard. I believe there’s a better story to tell than the one most people are hearing. And I believe the Church can be a place where people hear both truth and tenderness in the same sentence.

That’s why I’m here. That’s why I’m still saying yes—even when I’d rather be stress-snacking on chips and dip while yelling at the Seahawks and pretending Friends reruns count as self-care.

A Hopeful Beginning

This ministry is for anyone who’s felt stuck between silence and shouting. For the one who’s not sure where they fit. For the parents, pastors, and friends who want to love well but don’t know where to start. For the ones who are tired of oversimplified answers and longing for something deeper.

Christ-Centered Sexuality exists to bring clarity, courage, and Christ into the conversation on sex, identity, and discipleship. And we’re just getting started.

📩 Let’s Stay Connected

If any part of this resonates—or even just makes you curious—I’d love to keep you in the loop.
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This story is still unfolding, and I’d be honored to have you walk with me.

Thanks for being here. Really.