The Christ Centered Sexuality blog

Tag: Following Jesus

  • Sexual Wholeness Isn’t Perfection—It’s Alignment

    A lot of people hear “sexual wholeness” and think it means: Nope. Sexual wholeness isn’t perfection. It’s alignment. Alignment with God’s design.Alignment with covenant love.Alignment under the lordship of Jesus. Four Lenses That Help Us Make Sense of This When…

  • Why the Church Can’t Stay Silent About Sexuality

    Let me say it straight: Whether we like it or not, we are being discipled in our sexuality every single day. Not just in what we believe, but in what we absorb—through social media, TV, music, advertising, YouTube, TikTok, dating…

  • Why Singleness Isn’t Second Place (And Why It’s Actually Pretty Awesome)

    Let’s just call it out: the world acts like if you’re single, you’re basically living in some kind of pre-game lobby, just waiting for your real life to start. Like marriage is the big prize and everyone else is just……

  • My Story Part 3: Enneagram 5 Deep Dives and Golden Chicken Nuggets

    By Cassie Jacobs Was I Invited? No. Did I Bring Snacks and Opinions? Absolutely. Years later, after babies, moving across the country to the mountains, and wrestling with God concerning new questions of my own beliefs, a friend welcomed me…

  • My Story Part 2: When My Theology Choked on a Cup of Black Coffee

    By Cassie Jacobs Coffee Shop Theology (Unsolicited) The next part of my story finds me working at a bar in the window of one of my favorite coffee shops. What’s about to happen ends up marking me deeply… A conversation…

  • My Story Part 1: Suspicious of Unicorns and Purity Culture

    By Cassie Jacobs The first time I heard about Sally Jo (the magical unicorn that is SJ and the founder of Christ Centered Sexuality, CCS for short), I was suspicious. I was suspicious—but not in an I’ve got to watch…

  • So… I Accidentally Started a Ministry

    By Sally Jo Back in 2018, I wasn’t trying to start a ministry. I wasn’t looking for a platform, a nonprofit, or a new LinkedIn title. I was just trying to figure out how to follow Jesus while navigating an…

  • What We Believe About Jesus—and Why It Changes Everything

    At Christ-Centered Sexuality, everything we teach and live flows from who Jesus is and what He’s done. Our faith isn’t just a list of doctrines—it’s about a Person. A Savior. A love story. Here’s a look at what we believe…

  • Starting a Ministry on Human Sexuality: Excited? You Bet.

    By Sally Jo In my last post, I talked about all the things that make me nervous about stepping into this ministry space. (Spoiler: it’s a long list.) But today, I want to flip the script a little—because while there’s…

  • Starting a Ministry on Human Sexuality: Nervous? Absolutely.

    By Sally Jo So, here’s the deal: I’m diving into developing a ministry around human sexuality—a topic that’s, well… a little charged, to say the least. And while I’m passionate and excited about it, I’d be lying if I said…